what you think unequivocally is not something you tell for being most truthfully often doesn't fly so well we have adopted behaviour to not express as it is but instead we favour to stay within social limits instead of 'looks like shit'' we say 'has growth potential' and rather than 'bin it' we praise the 'oscar material' rather than labeling a sample 'an effort gone to waste' we eufemize the gamble as "it's an acquired taste" our feedback wonders afar i think we ought to stimulate saying the things as they are and call a spade a spade